In our writing class, we were assigned the task of writing the same scene or story from different perspectives or writing styles. Higginson Hall’s game room became my primary source of desire, diversion and triumph during that first failure of a quarter, my freshman year at Western Washington State College. Here’s the same story… two approaches.
Unprepared: Wooing Geena and Confronting Big Rick
The object of my desire was my combatant Geena, the Elvis-loving, vision of languid sensuality, strolling with serene concentration around the billiards table. Soon, her shoulder-blade length straight blonde locks fell softly upon the table’s verdant felt field of battle as she extended her right leg from the floor on tippy toes, raised her left leg horizontal to her lean torso, and stretched to make what I always relished, her deft cross-table touch shot. I was further rewarded with a brief smile as she dropped the right ball into the chosen hole. Could I win by losing occasionally, keeping her spirits up and defenses down? This is what passed for my grand strategy!
Big Rick, the 22-yo African American Residence Hall Assistant, was almost as tall as I, but 100 pounds heavier. His studio apartment, adjacent to the game room, brought him in sight of my ping pong predations.
“I bet you a six-pack I can beat you twenty games in row,” I bragged.
“You’re on, my boy.” Big Rick chuckled and bellowed vibrations of deep resonance.
I proceeded to beat Big Rick 20 games in a row. “Time to pay up, Big Rick!”
“That’s not going to happen,” was his immediate and confident reply.
“What do you mean not going to happen? We had a bet. A deal. You have to.”
We went back and forth a few times. I was indignant. Big Rick’s patience was wearing thin.
“Come with me to my apartment,” as he led me across the game room to his bedroom. Big Rick lifted his mattress, pulled out a gun and aimed it at me. “We’re done here, now, aren’t we?”
“Yes sir. We are.” I turned tail and left, never to speak of a six-pack at Higginson again.
Unprepared: College Life
Entering Western Washington State College directly from high school, I quit after one quarter. My 2.02 GPA belied a deeper reality. I had no idea where I was going, who I was, and what I wanted. And my D in French was undeserved. I should have flunked.
In the long march to maturity, Western was where reality forced confrontation with self. Just how far did I still need to travel to arrive at a tentative sense of competent adulthood?
Higginson Hall, my first residence away from home, my first painful dabbling in independence, proved a great site for bubbling failure.
I, lusting after Geena around the billiards table, couldn’t pull the trigger and act upon that yearning. Unasked, she was likely clueless to my fantasies.
I, underaged and supremely innocent, confidently wagered with Big Rick, our dorm residence assistant, for a six-pack of beer. This 18-yo Jewish suburbanite handily beat that 25-yo African American from Seattle’s Central Area on our ping pong bet, only to find that he who has the gun, sets the rules.
And what does one need to settle down, focus, and accomplish anything in this glorious life of self-professed value? All the stuff that I lacked at the time. Purpose. Discipline. A modicum of judgment earned from both experiences and some strange alchemy of interpretation of those experiences that produces proximations of wisdom.
Let’s call it preparation.
12 thoughts on “Unprepared”
Yikes, Daniel. That really happened?!Shabbat shalom.
That really happened!
Very nice Daniel, I would have paid up. Also, Peter Mayers at a pretty short run at SP and Peter Herzog finally got to be director.
So much fun to hear your preparation — Preparation That You Lived Through.
Funny, how some of “life’s lessons” stay with you….for life.
I’m curious, Daniel: Which version of this story do you like better?
And look what you later achieved? If it hadn’t been for a little adversity…….
You also could have written from the point of view of Geena, who obviously was hoping you’d pick up on her signals and take the next step!
Perhaps I could have created that fantasy. But that would just be what it would be – a fantasy. I assure you, kind sister, that Geena was quite unavailable. The signals on a railroad mainline wouldn’t be nearly as clear.
So, you trust your 18 year old judgement that much?
Daniel…did the RA really pull a gun on you? So startling. Could this be a fictional account drawing me into your story? Interesting, whatever. Camille
It absolutely happened exactly as I described it! First and thankfully last time I’ve ever had a gun shown – but thankfully not pointed at – me